A student experiencing significant stress sought help from advisor Auntie Momoza after having to balance final exam preparation with household duties.
The student noted that the academic pressure had become excessive because the already demanding schedule was compounded by chores such as cleaning, washing dishes, and cooking. When parents and siblings go to work, the student is left alone to manage the household.
By evening, exhaustion leaves him without the energy to review material. The student stated: 'Between studying, they expect me to clean, wash dishes, and cook.' He understands that household responsibilities cannot simply disappear, but he feels this distribution of workload is unfair, especially when his academic future is at stake.
The student emphasized that other students had the opportunity to study without interruptions. Despite attempts to explain how exhausted he was, the household tasks remained mandatory.
In response to the student's concerns, Shonisani Clifford suggested involving the school in resolving the issue. She advised him to speak with the principal or a teacher and ask them to visit the family to discuss temporary relief from household duties. The proposed agreement would only be valid until the exams were over, allowing the student more time to focus on his studies.
Nombulelo Hlatshwayo also expressed sympathy for the student, warning that the consequences of poor results would ultimately fall on him, despite the demands made at home. She said: 'I can understand, and believe me, they will blame you if you fail or get low grades. Drop the housework and study hard.'
Maye Maye shared her own experience, recounting facing similar demands from her mother while preparing for her final exams. She urged the student to remain resilient and seek guidance from a trusted teacher. 'That's how I passed with a good average throughout the year when I took my finals. My mom did the same thing. Just be strong, and if you can talk to one of your teachers, they can give you the right advice on how to handle this situation. Thank you.'



